{"id":7480,"date":"2022-05-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-17T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/posts\/ten-nos\/"},"modified":"2025-04-18T08:29:50","modified_gmt":"2025-04-18T05:29:50","slug":"ten-nos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/reflections\/ten-nos\/","title":{"rendered":"Ten NOs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have ten NOs gifted to me by a friend who had espoused living in peace. He said to me:<br \/>\n1. Do not hurt someone you love with a word you know will hurt him.<br \/>\n2. Do not give him a distorted image of himself.<br \/>\n3. Do not remind him of the good you have done to him or to someone of his own.<br \/>\n4. If he makes a mistake, do not make fun of him, or of a weakness in him.<br \/>\n5. Do not put too much pressure on him.<br \/>\n6. Do not delay in forgiving him.<br \/>\n7. Do not sleep on his grief.<br \/>\n8. Do not start your day with him from the end.<br \/>\n9. Do not let him feel that he is useless.<br \/>\n10. Do not forget that love can work miracles.<br \/>\nYes, this is a gift of friendship that I pass on to you with my love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have ten NOs gifted to me by a friend who had espoused living in peace. He said to me: 1. Do not hurt someone you love with a word you know will hurt him. 2. Do not give him a distorted image of himself. 3. Do not remind him of the good you have ...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88889,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[343],"tags":[1327,1240,1704,1379,1241],"class_list":["post-7480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-reflections","tag-christian-love","tag-forgiveness","tag-orthodox-ethics","tag-relationships","tag-spiritual-growth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7480","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/88889"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7480"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7480\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7784,"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7480\/revisions\/7784"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7480"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7480"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fatherelia.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7480"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}